This post is inspired by a real story. There is a reason behind everything. In India there is no reason behind anything. People can be selfish, and deceitful. In two decades of life you have to imagine what can be achieved. You will only have four or five decades after you leave college, and school.
The choice of a correct partner is an absolute requirement. In case your partner is pulling you down, you may not have many choices. The person will remain sincere to his own family, creating a mess in your life. The person might not have enough in himself, to stand up to you. The two of you are the starting point to the society. Your work place is a big contributor. You might have a workplace for one of you, where at a short notice they will displace you. They will send you for a project, and all your dreams can get shattered. They might be into corporate social responsibility, but the stress created for many, through this activity might be huge. All in all, please be extremely cautious as regards whom you marry, live in, or have as friends.
Lack of connectivity, silence, and deceit will work against the relationship, and will only lead to a low trust, or a no trust relationship. In the end all the positivism you display is only benefiting you, and might be being used by the friend, or partner. You will not receive any happiness, positive actions, and care from them. There is only a limit to which one can live with a dog. Mistrust earlier on in the relationship, will only lead to no-synergy condition. However much you try to understand, this does not work.
In some parts of India, people, families, and peers will create as many confusions for outsiders. Instead of being tolerant, they will ask you to change, make you listen to their frustrations, and also force their ideas down your throat. Well this might not be desirable, might be unnecessary, and negative in nature. The synergy is not there, and really the relationship is not going anywhere. In such cases it is best to break away, and go lead your individual lives. If the people know about their own good, keep secrets, use you for their requirements, and do not respect you; really there is not much to be desired from such a co-existence.
The choice of a correct partner is an absolute requirement. In case your partner is pulling you down, you may not have many choices. The person will remain sincere to his own family, creating a mess in your life. The person might not have enough in himself, to stand up to you. The two of you are the starting point to the society. Your work place is a big contributor. You might have a workplace for one of you, where at a short notice they will displace you. They will send you for a project, and all your dreams can get shattered. They might be into corporate social responsibility, but the stress created for many, through this activity might be huge. All in all, please be extremely cautious as regards whom you marry, live in, or have as friends.
Lack of connectivity, silence, and deceit will work against the relationship, and will only lead to a low trust, or a no trust relationship. In the end all the positivism you display is only benefiting you, and might be being used by the friend, or partner. You will not receive any happiness, positive actions, and care from them. There is only a limit to which one can live with a dog. Mistrust earlier on in the relationship, will only lead to no-synergy condition. However much you try to understand, this does not work.
In some parts of India, people, families, and peers will create as many confusions for outsiders. Instead of being tolerant, they will ask you to change, make you listen to their frustrations, and also force their ideas down your throat. Well this might not be desirable, might be unnecessary, and negative in nature. The synergy is not there, and really the relationship is not going anywhere. In such cases it is best to break away, and go lead your individual lives. If the people know about their own good, keep secrets, use you for their requirements, and do not respect you; really there is not much to be desired from such a co-existence.
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